I find out about this few weeks ago through Facebook. Alhamdulillah, I did remove all my pictures. To all Muslims people, especially man, please read... And please do so.
"Brothers, your wife (or wives) / sister might be extremely beautiful but do NOT post pictures of her online for the world to see. If you are someone who has the ability then you should remove her pictures off her profile or at least strongly advise her (if she is your sister etc).
The one who who allows his women to openly show their adornments or one who has no protective jealousy over his womenfolk is a dayooth. This carries serious punishments in Islam:
The Messenger (salAllahu alayhi wa sallam) said "Three (types of) people will not enter paradise, and Allaah will not look to them on the Day of Judgement: the one who is disobedient to his parents, the woman who imitates men and the ad-Dayooth.” (Ahmad)
Ibn al-Qayyim, rahimahullaah, said, “And the dayyooth (the man with no jealousy over the woman and his family) is the most vile of Allah’s creation, and Junnah is forbidden for him, (because of his lack of Gharyah-jealousy). A man should be “jealous” with regard to his wife’s honor and standing. He should defend her whenever she is slandered or spoken ill of behind her back. Actually, this is a right of every Muslim in general but a right of the spouse specifically. He should also be jealous in not allowing other men to look at his wife or speak with her in a manner which is not appropriate.
Sisters, do NOT marry such a man. Are you happy to marry a man who will not enter jannah? Are you happy to marry a man who will parade you around like an object or some sort of trophy for the world to see? No doubt you deserve better, so when considering someone for marriage, make sure you judge what his level of gheera (protective jealousy) is like, because that is in direct correlation to his level of deen."
via Abu Ibraheem
p/s: just sharing for our own good... And a cute picture to all girls. ^_*
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